Saturday, January 3, 2009

Weekend at My House


I'm in the middle of a typical Saturday here at Casa Monson. I just thought I'd share this moment with you. I'm reading one of my favorite blogs (Home Fires by Lois Lane) and I'm joined, first by Zoey, and soon after, by Bella. They have a need to join me at (on) my desk whenever I'm sitting here for more than a few minutes. Pardon the redeye and the photo quality, I didn't dare roll my chair back for fear of them jumping off my desk. Aren't we cute, catching up on our favorite blogs?

And, see for yourself why I love Lois Lane!

http://nonewzhomefires.blogspot.com

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Thursday, December 18, 2008

My Lucky Day!

Okay, so if you know me, you know that I'm a fan of several "bloggers" out there, and that I actually created this blog, sort of "in honor" of one of one of the most well known bloggers of them all - Rosie O'Donnell. I found her blog way back when she started on the View, but by then she'd been doing it for years. I wish I had known about it earlier, when it could sort of be more "organic". By the time I happened upon it, she had so many fans visiting every day that it lost a little of it's charm/intimacy. In any case, I was hooked from the start, and through Rosie, I found Ross the Intern and ANT, the comedian - and I've been a regular at all of their blogs for the last year+. Because of that, I had the wonderful opportunity to meet ANT this past summer when he came to town for a show he was in. He could not have been more kind, gracious, welcoming, considerate - the whole evening, he made sure that we (my friend Kristy and I) were taken care of. Then, he asked me to meet for breakfast the next morning so we'd have a chance to talk. Here's a picture from that morning:

Isn't he cute as a button? He, more than any other, has been so unafraid to connect on a real level. Recently, I posted on his blog (nbc.com/ant) about some big decisions I was making about my life, and literally 5 minutes later, my cell phone rang, and it was him. "Talk to me, what's going on?" He proceeded to spend the next 20 minutes telling me how I deserved nothing but the best, and encouraging me to demand nothing less for myself. He was really something. (Especially given the fact that at the time, he was at the bedside of his life partner, who passed away about a week later. He still took the time to call me, which I think is pretty amazing.) Now, backtracking a bit, I found ANT through Ross "the Intern" Mathews (you know, the cute funny guy from the Tonight Show, who does all of the fun assignments for Jay?) If, for any reason, you don't recognize his name, you'll surely know his voice when you hear it. Here's my favorite ROSS assignment:

HYSTERICAL!!!!!
Since then, Ross appeared on Celebrety Fit Club (hosted by ANT) on VH1. He lost over 60 pounds, and to this day, he posts new blogs every day at NBC.com/rossblog. Sometimes, he does what's called a "teleblog" where he asks for phone numbers and randomly calls a few of his blogger fans (called "blog buddies") and records it for a blog. Yesterday, I was lucky enough to get a call! (It might have been because I submitted my number 50-60 times as evidenced here:

From: Ross Mathews [mailto:hellorossm@hotmail.com]
Sent: Wednesday, December 17, 2008 2:59 PM
To: Monson, Donna
Subject: RE: TELEBLOG


Donna! Only one entry per person - you're jamming my email!
Thanks!
Ross


Subject: RE: TELEBLOG
Date: Wed, 17 Dec 2008 14:59:29 -0600
From: Donna.Monson@qwest.com
To: hellorossm@hotmail.com


Sorry, I totally got addicted. I stopped a few minutes ago. How embarassing!

From: Ross Mathews [mailto:hellorossm@hotmail.com]
Sent: Wednesday, December 17, 2008 3:00 PM
To: Monson, Donna
Subject: RE: TELEBLOG


I appreciate your enthusiasm! :)
Ross
)

It turned out several of us were sending multiple requests, and so he got a bit overwhelmed by the response. Funny!

Anyway, want to see it? I'm caller #3. Check it out!!!!

SANTA HATS!!! YAY!!! SANTA HATS ARE FAMOUS NOW - hooray!! Wasn't his diagram perfect??

So, my Christmas is off to a fantastic start. And, my sister, her husband, and my baby nephew Olan will be here in a matter of days - life is good!

Friday, December 12, 2008

I, Robot Baby



DSC06623, originally uploaded by d_jazmine.



Is it just me? Or does Olan look just a teensy bit like the I, Robot faces in this particular photo?

A Little Christmas Reading


DSC06768, originally uploaded by d_jazmine.

Olan is catching up on his reading list. Doesn't he look smart? :-)

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Olan's First Parade

In honor of VETRAN's DAY - we thank all of the men and women who have, and continue to serve our country. God Bless the United States of America!


Monday, November 10, 2008

He Said, She Said, She Said

ANT said:

"Why NOT you???"

Molly said:

"Listen to what the Universe is telling you.
There are better things just waiting for you."

Oprah said:

"When someone shows you who they are, believe them...the first time."

Letting Go

There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this!
When people can walk away from you: let them walk.


I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you,
loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you,
staying attached to you.
I mean hang up the phone.


When people can walk away from you let them walk.
Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

People leave you because they are not joined to you.
And if they are not joined to you,
you can't make them stay.
Let them go.


And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person,
it just means that their part in the story is over.
And you've got to know when people's
part in your story is over so that you
don't keep trying to raise the dead.


You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over.
Let me tell you something.
I've got the gift of good-bye.
It's the tenth spiritual gift,
I believe in good-bye.


It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful,
and I know whatever God means for me to have
He'll give it to me.
And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it.
Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!


If you are holding on to something
that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life,
then you need to ...LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains .
LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth...
LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you ...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction .
LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or
talents ..
LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude...
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better...
LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new
level in Him...
LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship....
LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help
themselves..
LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed ....
LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling
yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to...
LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past.
Forget the former things.
LET IT GO!!!

Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!!


IMG_1734, originally uploaded by d_jazmine.



This was one of my more recent costumes. I was "DIZZY". (Thus, the stars and birdies circling around my head.)

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Olan is GROWING!


Here's my cute nephew, in a little onsie from Auntie Donna. I loved the polka dots, and Kjersti and Alex have dubbed it "Olan's Wonder Bread Onsie"

Monday, October 27, 2008

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

What the Pfuck???



And just for fun, a look at "Real Wasilla"

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

The Happy Family


Atlanta Baby 033, originally uploaded by d_jazmine.

Kjersti, Alex and Olan Duval.

Seriously...


IMG_2960, originally uploaded by d_jazmine.

...have you ever seen a cuter face? I mean, come ON! :-) Proud Auntie Donna, holding Olan in her lap - what a treat that was!!

IMHO

John McCain, for all of his "tough guy" talk, is just a tired old wimp, MY FRIENDS. He had 90 minutes last night, to go after Obama (our next President) the same way he and his partners in crime have the past few days, and he said NOTHING. Gee, I wonder why that is? He had all that time to question Obama's PATRIOTISM, to question his BACKGROUND, to suggest that he DOESN'T SUPPORT THE TROOPS...and he refused to do it. Why didn't he look him in the eyes and call him Senator Hussein, like his cronies are doing? Wait...maybe that's just supposed to be in the background, to make Obama "look suspect". But, like every punk and schoolyard bully, he can't own up to it himself.

Obama, on the other hand, landed every punch above board. All of them were fair, legitimate, and issue based - things he'd mentioned before, publicly; things he is man enough to put in his commercials, and repeat right in (down to) John McCain's face.

What a sad, pathetic small excuse for a man John McCain has turned in to as we all watched.

Oh, and incidentally, for someone who is so self-conscious about his height and physical limitations, the format last night was really not helpful for McCain either. While Obama gracefully and easily covered ground all over the stage, McCain hobbled around like a penguin, chuckling awkwardly to himself at his (completely ignored) attempts at wit and banter. Next time: Stick to the milk crate behind the podium. Just don't fall off and break a hip.


If you want to cut through the debate hodge podge, and just learn a little more about John on your own, here's the place to go:

http://www.rollingstone.com/news/coverstory/make_believe_maverick_the_real_john_mccain

Unleashed, Palin Makes a Pit Bull Look Tame

By Dana Milbank
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
; A03



FORT MYERS, Fla., Oct. 6 John McCain is collapsing in the polls in Florida and other swing states, but Sarah Palin, God bless her, has a solution.

"For me, the heels are on, the gloves are off," she announced at high noon Monday to a group of Republican donors at the Naples Beach Club.

You betcha.

As the donors sipped their bloody marys and mimosas, she added, in a conspiratorial stage whisper, "I'm sending the message back to John McCain also: Tomorrow night in his debate, might as well take the gloves off."

Darn right.

Of course, it's not only gloves and heels; headgear has a role, too. "Okay, so, Florida, you know that you're going to have to hang on to your hats," she said at a morning rally in Clearwater, "because from now until Election Day, it may get kind of rough."

Say it ain't so, Sarah!

Sen. Lindsey Graham, a McCain confidant, told The Post's David Broder that the campaign would "go down in history as stupid if they don't unleash" Palin. Well, the self-identified pit bull has been unleashed -- if not unhinged.

Barack Obama, she told 8,000 fans at a rally here Monday afternoon, "launched his political career in the living room of a domestic terrorist!" This followed her earlier accusation that the Democrat pals around with terrorists. "This is not a man who sees America the way you and I see America," she told the Clearwater crowd. "I'm afraid this is someone who sees America as imperfect enough to work with a former domestic terrorist who had targeted his own country." The crowd replied with boos.

McCain had said that racially explosive attacks related to Obama's former pastor, the Rev. Jeremiah Wright, are off limits. But Palin told New York Times columnist Bill Kristol in an interview published Monday: "I don't know why that association isn't discussed more."

Worse, Palin's routine attacks on the media have begun to spill into ugliness. In Clearwater, arriving reporters were greeted with shouts and taunts by the crowd of about 3,000. Palin then went on to blame Katie Couric's questions for her "less-than-successful interview with kinda mainstream media." At that, Palin supporters turned on reporters in the press area, waving thunder sticks and shouting abuse. Others hurled obscenities at a camera crew. One Palin supporter shouted a racial epithet at an African American sound man for a network and told him, "Sit down, boy."

McCain's swoon is largely out of his control, the result of an economic collapse that ignited new fears Monday when the Dow Jones industrial average closed below 10,000 for the first time in four years. That's why his lead in Florida polls, which once reached as high as 15 points, has turned into a three-point deficit.

But the campaign has reacted with recriminations (the St. Petersburg Times reported that the Florida Republican Party chairman, after questioning Palin's aptitude, was told that he couldn't fly on her plane) and now Palin's rage.

The angry GOP vice presidential nominee even found a way to blame the market decline on the yet-to-be-enacted tax policies of the yet-to-be-elected Obama.

"If you turn on the news tonight when you get home, you're gonna see that, yah, this is another woeful day in the market, and the other side just doesn't understand -- no!" she said at an afternoon fundraiser at the home of mutual fund giant Jack Donahue. "Especially in a time like this, you don't propose to increase taxes. The phoniest claim in a campaign that's full of them is that Barack Obama is going to cut your taxes."

Of course, Obama never promised to cut taxes for people at $10,000-a-plate lunches in air-conditioned tents on waterfront compounds. And the crowd -- among them New York Jets owner Woody Johnson -- reacted without applause to Palin's Joe Six-Pack lines. After they didn't strike up the usual "Drill, baby, drill" or "USA" chants, Palin, rattled, read hurriedly through the rest of her speech.

The reception had been better in Clearwater, where Palin, speaking to a sea of "Palin Power" and "Sarahcuda" T-shirts, tried to link Obama to the 1960s Weather Underground. "One of his earliest supporters is a man named Bill Ayers," she said. ("Boooo!" said the crowd.) "And, according to the New York Times, he was a domestic terrorist and part of a group that, quote, 'launched a campaign of bombings that would target the Pentagon and our U.S. Capitol,' " she continued. ("Boooo!" the crowd repeated.)

"Kill him!" proposed one man in the audience.


Palin also told those gathered that Obama doesn't like American soldiers. "He said that our troops in Afghanistan are just, quote, 'air-raiding villages and killing civilians,' " she said, drawing boos from a crowd that had not been told Obama was actually appealing for more troops in Afghanistan.

"See, John McCain is a different kind of man: He believes in our troops," she said.

At times, Palin hinted at the GOP campaign's troubles. "It's going to be a hard-fought contest, especially in these swing states, some maybe we would not have expected," she admitted to donors. She allowed that "John McCain and I need to do a better job" of talking about the economy.

At other times, she had troubles of her own, as when she spoke over the weekend of "our neighboring country of Afghanistan" or when she got choked up at the Clearwater rally, saying, "Some of your signs just make me wanna cry," without explaining which ones or why.

But then the gloves came off, the heels came out, and Palin was once again talking about her opponent hanging out in a terrorist's living room.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Auntie Donna and Olan


I just returned from a week in Atlanta with Kjersti, Alex and their son, Olan Bertrand Duval-Arnould (and Grandma Karen, too!) Olan is so very precious. He's incredibly alert and focused for his age. He had his first doctor's appointment since returning home, and had gained almost a pound since leaving the hospital, so he's got that eating thing down! He's sleeping well (most of the time) and both Kjersti and Alex have adapted to having him home. Mom and I tried to help however we could; but it was hard to tear ourselves away from the baby. I'm already counting down to the next visit, whenever that might be. I know he will be a totally different little person, even if I can see him within the next few months. That part is hard. All of us are so far away, on both sides of the family. But, in a stunning development, Alex has created a blog for Olan. So, now all of us will have a place to watch his progress, and send comments to proud Mommy and Daddy. You'll find his blog at www.olanduval.blogspot.com